But for the horny teenager who can’t get a moment alone with his beau, friskiness under the movie blanket is fueled not by adventurousness but by desperation.įunktapus learned early on that this kind of desperation can lead to a bad experience. It only takes a few seconds right guys? I chalked it up as a victory for my manhood!įor adults, having sex when someone else is in the next room over and liable to enter at any moment - in this case, it was bearsonsays’ girlfriend’s Mom - is “spontaneous” and arousing. I turn to my gal and say, "was I in?" She confirms that I indeed had been.
I quickly jump up and zip up as her mother walks down the stairs. As I am in the process of losing the V-Card I hear footsteps near stairs. We were watching the classic, award winning film, Bring It On and pulled the blanket up and made the move. User bearsonsays starts us off with a fairly typical, if risky, cherry-popping experience: In high school. We plumbed its far corners to find stories from men about how they lost their virginity, so we can take an eclectic look at the first time and see just how awesome, awful or confusing it can be. Parts of Reddit are clearinghouses for personal anecdotes. A line is being crossed, culturally and physically, and might happen any variety of ways: Badly, through abuse (given or received) well, within a healthy and caring relationship and anywhere in between, with results varying from hilarious to heartbreaking. Guys who wait to have sex for “too long” might feel ashamed, like something is wrong with them.īut despite the way men tend to prize the big event, having sex for the first time is a vulnerable experience.
This attitude creates a lot of pressure for males, and can encourage them to think of women more as conquests than human beings. RELATED: What You Need to Know About Losing Your Virginity Teen boys don’t want to get laid just because they’re pumped full of hormones they want to get laid because they want to be men. We tend to measure masculinity in part through sexual experience.